Not interested in dating right now
He’s incapable of having a text or talk that doesn’t end up that way (kinda the equivalent of the whole meme). Either way, do you really want to be spending your time with this kind of man? A man who can’t be bothered to hold a conversation with you via text (or even bother to call) and who only beckons you when he wants you is one that isn’t boyfriend material.
Consider where the man you’re dating…er, sleeping with…is in his life. And if you respond every time to his late-night text, you’re just giving him permission to continue this behavior. Out for an Italian dinner…or drive-thru tacos so you can get home faster?
When you think about the times you’ve spent with this man, you think, when you have a great time? In order for a man to commit, he needs to get something from you that he can’t get anywhere else. If you want something more, make sure you’re giving something more and not communicating that sex is the most important thing to you. It might be that they’re not confident and feel like they need to remind you of how amazing it is to have sex with them (they hope).
Still, these men are out there, so knowing the signs that he just wants sex can save you a lot of heartache and headache.
But chances are, if she’s showing three or more of these signs, then she’s probably getting ready to call it quits... So if she’s suddenly cold on texting, she’s probably not that into you.
So if she was an oversharer before and suddenly goes off the grid, then maybe she doesn’t want you to know where she is.
If he’s between 26 and 33, he may have commitment and even marriage on the mind, but after that period, the chances he’ll marry begin to decline, and at that point, it’s likely he just wants sex. The next time he texts looking to hook up, just ignore him. To the movies…or to his house for a Netflix and Chill session? And while there’s nothing wrong with hanging at home once you’ve been together several weeks or months, it should not be how you start out.
If you really want to date a man with long-term potential, consider targeting men in this age bracket. Certainly, you’ll want to jump into bed with your boyfriend…but that comes after you’ve gone out and explored your city and gotten to know each other on dates. But he’s put up a barrier that keeps you from getting too close to him.