Godly dating principles
It is certainly true that no passage of Scripture says — in so many words, at least — “thou shalt not kiss before marriage.” Having said that, I submit that there is a strong argument to be made from Scripture that there is sexual relationship outside of marriage.The argument becomes clearer when we look at some of what the Bible has to say about 1) sex, 2) our relationships with other believers and 3) sexual immorality itself.We are to do this in light of what God has done for us in Christ and in light of Christ’s impending return. For God did not call us to be impure, but to lead a holy life.Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his holy spirit.” Look closely at verse 6.
Was your for doing what you did to build that person up spiritually — to make that person “more holy” (Ephesians -29)?
Do you believe that you and your partner “honor[ed] God with your bodies” in doing what you did (1 Corinthians )?
Whatever you did, did that interaction reflect of sexual immorality in what you did (Ephesians 5:3-5)?
In 1 Corinthians 7:3 and following, Paul says once we are married, our bodies literally belong to our spouse; he also instructs spouses to meet one another’s sexual needs and to be together regularly so as to protect ourselves from falling into ungodly lust and extramarital sexual activity.
If you have any doubts about God’s intention to give us sex as a wonderful, pleasurable gift, Song of Songs should put them to rest.