Borderline personality online dating
The word ‘BPD’ has so many negative words associated with it. Respect and trust are the foundations of any healthy relationship. He is a loving, strong, ‘alpha male’, who is actually mature enough to take advice from sites and books like these and put them into use. It’s very rare to see a man successfuly date a quality woman. She told me how it was an extremely toxic relationship. So why the hell did she stay with a douchebag for 5 years? Most guys are making crucial errors that push the girl away even further.I’m sure you’ve seen these thrown all over the web. However, because women are like cats, she will come and go as she pleases. Most people with poor mindsets become needy and insecure when a woman pulls away. We may be labeled as ‘troubled’ or ‘crazy’ but that does not at all mean we can’t have healthy relationships. You have to mentally see what they see, read between the lines. I hope you can see why you’re drawn to the honeymoon period. You love the feeling of being close and affectionate. You think you’re doing the right thing, but it always blows up in your face.How can anyone improve themselves when those closest to them excuse shitty behavior? Relationships are at an all-time toxic level due to poor mindsets. Most men gladly give up this power due to poor mindsets. But I would like to point out that I am not (neither are other people with this disorder) hopeless to date. But, your very act of wanting to be with her everyday is enabling her. This is why men who fail in BPD relationships are often the cause of her pain. It is the only true way to show love to a borderline.Therefore, it’s important to reject the mainstream programming you receive from society. Men who understand women know to let a woman have this power. They fail all the important tests and then wonder why she left! You need the right mentality to pass these tests and give her healthy relationship vibes. Read it and notice the many lessons within: === “Hello Rick! I have been in a relationship with a man for over a year now. Most guys (and girls) have trouble dealing with Borderlines in their relationships.One of my favorite quotes is this: “A woman gives you shit to make sure you the shit.” How will you react? So, I suggest you do some research and get some advice from someone like Rick next time you find yourself in a relationship with someone who has BPD” – Carrie === Let that email be an inspiration for you. You’ll find yourself chasing her and guilt-tripping her if you don’t. She gave you many hints of the mindsets you need to make a BPD relationship work.
For example, labeling someone as BPD is a bad mindset. Because you’ll find reasons to excuse bad behavior in the name of BPD. Not only are you enabling her, but you are also making her a worse person! It’s crucial that you develop strong, powerful mindsets.But, the reality is that you’ll encounter complications in all relationships. Yet all studies show that relationships and social skills are at an all-time low. Because 97% of men lack mental and emotional control. The man who fails with BPD women sets himself up for failure. Because you can avoid 90% of the problems you experience. My goal with this website and my training is to teach you from my experience. Instead of the man having control over his mind, the mind controls him! But real, actual love and compatibility is impossible without strong, independent mindsets. This is why the BPD label doesn’t matter at the end of the day. Understanding this fact is all you need to be successful. When she pulls away, she wants to see how you’ll react. But, this week she doesn’t have those same feelings for whatever reason. Now I’m not going to sit here and say that you’re 100% responsible for your relationship not working. However, understand that you are 100% responsible for yourself. The attitude you see all around you is to point fingers and blame others. This is why a healthy, fulfilling relationship is a rare sight. Therefore, I focus on teaching the mindsets that are best for BPD relationships. This is true even if she doesn’t know it on a subconscious level.