After christian dating divorce
We can be desperate to avoid loneliness, we are looking for a quick fix to ease the pain of rejection and abandonment and/or unfaithfulness and/or oppression.
We long to be loved again, and in dating too soon, we miss the greatest Love of all, the Lord our God. Divorced people need to start at home alone, spending time with Jesus Christ, the lover of their souls.
I had to seek the Lord and let Him do a new work of healing and forgiveness in my heart.
It was a long slow process, but that does not mean every person is the same.
He is a true healer, and I speak from personal experience.
If He can heal me without the use of dating, He can heal you without the use of dating as well.
I have learned through the extensive study of the Word of God that singleness is both a gift (). Well, we see what Jesus taught: He taught that we should be preaching the Kingdom of Heaven and repentance and remission of sins. So if we are single, even just for a season, we should be using that seasonal gift to serve Jesus the best we can, as the Holy Spirit leads us.
Buser, Ph D, coauthor of The Guys-Only Guide to Getting Over Divorce.
We should refuse to be unfaithful to our spouse even if the divorce is being processed in court.
Aside from that, the biggest disadvantage of dating too soon (assuming the person is legally divorced now) is entanglement.
My friend, Pastor Curtis Alexander, was willing to share a male perspective on the topic of waiting to date, healing and life after divorce.
I think this information is very valuable for us females who are walking the path of surviving and thriving after divorce.